On Developing Relationships

I had a conversation with a new client this week. It went something like this.

Me: Hey dude, here’s that work you offered to pay me a princely sum for doing. (I’m paraphrasing here)

Client: I’m a bit disappointed. There’s guys a lot cheaper than you who look like they can do this.

It would have been easy to pout or rant, or just give up and find another client, at this point. A lot of the artistic sorts who want to write for a living would do exactly that. I admit that I’ve done it once or twice myself. Instead…

Me: I’m sorry to hear that. It’s pretty rare. Could you tell me what you were hoping for?

Client: Here are some examples of what a cheaper guy did for me.

Me: Here’s another article. Here’s where I included stuff your cheaper guy did. Here’s where I do stuff he doesn’t. If you love it, buy it. If not, spend your money on the cheaper guy.

Client: Woah! This is what I was hoping for. Give me some more!

 

That kind of give-and-take took time out of my schedule (which is pretty packed since I’m cramming three weeks of work into one week between two vacations) — but it pays off. The new client might or might not buy a lot of new work from me after our initial agreement expires…but we’re now conversing like friends.

I’ve mentioned before how powerful repeat business is. Relationships with clients and editors are the lifeblood of that repeat businesses.

How about you all? Any stories about repeat customers, or handling an initially poor review that turned into success? Post in the comments below.

 

The Seven Habits of High-Earning Freelancers (Part Seven)

Here’s the final habit in my series on things to do if you want to make it as a freelance writer. Thanks for sticking  with it. Find part six here, and follow the links to the rest of the series.

Habit seven may sound like a bunch of hippie silliness at first glance, but it’s actually something practiced by CEOs of major corporations.

 

HABIT SIX: HAVING AN ABUNDANCE MINDSET

Most freelance writers have the following financial cycle:

  1. Write your butt off.
  2. Count up how much money you made.
  3. Spend that money.
  4. Repeat.

It’s an easy rut to fall into, and it does mean you’re making a little money. But it’s no way to grow your freelancing business. Instead, consider the power of this financial cycle:

  1. Identify how much money you want.
  2. Figure out how much writing will cover that nut.
  3. Write that much.
  4. Spend the money.
  5. Repeat.

This is abundance-based budgeting, as opposed to scarcity-based budgeting. A scarcity-based budgeter asks “Can I afford this?”. An abundance-based budgeter asks “What do I have to do to afford this?”

Making this simple change to your freelancing business makes a huge difference in your chances for success, and your quality of life.

One important caveat….

Even though you should budget your money with an abundance mindset, always spend with a scarcity mindset. Doing anything else adds debt load to your budget that makes it harder to succeed.

How about you? What kinds of budgeting and forecasting techniques help you grow your writing (or other) business?

 

The Seven Habits of High-Earning Freelancers (Part Six)

Click here for part five of the series.

 

 

 

HABIT SIX: MARKET RESEARCH

Lawrence Block is an award-winning mystery writer with an immense body of work and enthusiastic following. For several years he wrote an advice column in Writers’ Digest magazine. In one such column, he said that writers who don’t read the magazines they want to write for won’t get published — and they don’t deserve to. Continue reading

Friday Fun: The Wire

The Wire would be the single best show on television, ever, if it were not for the existence of the new BBC Sherlock. It’s been gone for a while now, but is seriously excellent.

It’s so good that the boxed DVD set contains zero extras. People buy it on the strength of what they’ve already seen. Not even Firefly (long live Browncoats everywhere) can say that.

Recently, some people got together members of the cast for a short, funny film. Sadly, my source won’t embed…but here’s the link:

The Wire The Musical

Enjoy